Home After Marriage

Marriage is a precious relationship which is tied between two different people for the whole life. In India, after marriage society symbolize the home of married women as her husband's home. Married woman has no right to call her own home (mayka) as her home.

On the other hand, the newly wed is little hesitated to accept the new wedded home as her own home. It is natural to accept a home where everyone is new to her and she has to keep all the relationship firmly and enact to call that home as her own. She has to listen all types of gossips, even what she doesn't like. She has to behave very nicely with all members even when she doesn't feel comfortable with any member. 

In spite of all, her husband will not support her or he will not appreciate her wherever she requires his support and appreciation.

Sometimes, the situation is too pathetic to handle still she has to keep mum and not to give answer to anyone. People will give fake- value i.e. she is very well- mannered and cultured lady.

What ever her wishes are; she has to sacrifice it all for her new family to keep their image sustain in the eyes of others. Everywhere in world people will say India has grew up tremendously well but still we will make our daughter in law to be inside the home. And bound them in home and force them not go to the work. As if she committed any mistake after becoming the part of this new family.

Is it called Home really? Do we make our daughter to celled inside the house? Do we make our sister, daughter or mother to be hided when any outsider get inside the home? Or else is it really a home for newly wedded?

When will we change? When will our mind will be changed? Please like or comment on my blog if you read it....